Acknowledgments.

Chapter 1 The Five Types of Affairs.

Chapter 2 The Two Sides of Telling: Will I, Won't I . . . / Do I Want toKnow?

Chapter 3 Facing the Affair.

Chapter 4 Flashpoints for Violence.

Chapter 5 Letting Go of Obsession.

Chapter 6 Working on the Marriage: Building a Sense of Trust and Belonging.

Chapter 7 Working on Your Self: Healing Childhood Wounds.

Chapter 8 Rebuilding When Your Marriage Ends with an Affair.

Chapter 9 Getting Help That Is Helpful.

Chapter 10 Talking with Your Children, Your Friends, and Your Family.

Chapter 11 Examining the Single Side of the Triangle.

Chapter 12 Making Peace, Moving On.

Notes.

Recommended Reading.

Resources.

About the Author.

About the Affairs.

Help Web Site.

Index.